Wednesday, September 17, 2014

Zone Leaders and Chocolate Chip Stories

"Elder Tracey, Sister Arrieta, Elder Kobbah, and me. Sorry about the awkward cropping, whoever took this picture cut off poor Elder Barrera who just got his visa and is off to Brazil!"

"My lovely companion and our zone leaders, Elder Yeager and Elder Tracey"

"The one and only ​L (his mom is the one who feeds all six of us missionaries every Wed & he is the one from the chocolate chip story that I wrote about a couple weeks back). The cuteness is overwhelming sometimes..."

Sleeping in a Trailer

Hello y'all!

I would like to start off with a story: Once upon a time, you go to Walmart to go grocery shopping. You are walking along with your companion, doing your shopping thing, when you catch a glimpse of yourself in a window. And you realize, with sudden horror, that you have made the most grievous of mistakes. You did that one thing that you are never supposed to do.
You wore a navy blue shirt and tan skirt to Walmart.
And to make things worse, you are also wearing a name tag.
"No ma'am, I can't help you find the Twinkies, but would you like to sit down and talk about how we can find Christ?"
Struggles.

Anyway, it was a great week, with many miracles. Another transfer is here and I am very relieved and excited to be with Sister Arrieta for another transfer. We are committed to go above and beyond what we have previously done, because we both think we have so much more we can/need to accomplish. And we are excited and ready to work!

Just a few of the miracles I've seen lately:
We were able to have a family attend church this Sunday for the first time, and they loved it. This family is composed of a couple and their four kids, all of which are very good friends with a number of families in our ward. They have had Mormon friends for years, and it wasn't until recently, that the wife approached her good friend, and asked her if they weren't "missing out on something" by not being a part of the Mormon church. This great friend set up a time for Sis Arrieta and I to go help her paint some rooms in her house. They had tried three years ago to introduce them to the elders and evidently that dinner was pretty awkward haha... But one painting adventure led to two, which led to three, and teaching the Restoration and Plan of Salvation, and answering so many questions. They are definitely still hesitant, what with both of their families being very strong Baptists, but they love what we teach and how we live. The other day when we were at their house, the mom told us that from what she could see, our church truly tries to function as "the body of Christ." And she likes that. We are very excited for them.

We also experienced a miracle or two (or more) on exchanges this week. Exchanges are when we swap missionary companions for the day, and as sister training leaders, it is our job to organize these exchanges. So on Wednesday-Thursday, Sister Arrieta and I went on exchanges with Sister Applegate and Sister Taylor who are serving in Waynesboro. I went to Waynesboro with Sister Taylor and enjoyed sleeping in a trailer in the middle of Georgian farmland, and was lucky that I didn't have to experience the mice that have taken residence in their trailer for myself. Meanwhile, Sister Arrieta was here in Grovetown, and while knocking, met a Filipino family that had just moved here! Not only that, but they live on the exact same street as one of the Filipino families in our ward! Heavenly Father is the best. So there I was, Saturday night, sitting in a typical family room in south Georgia, listening to the gospel being taught and discussed in Tagalog. And I tried to smile and add things best I could when I could pick up on some of the Spanish vocabulary. (Which is limited to 2 years of Junior High Spanish, mind you.) But it was truly beautiful and an amazing example to me of how God is always in control, and has a plan for each of us.

If we are living the way we should, we all can be used as instruments in His perfect hands. The scalpel never knows more than the doctor, but it is extremely important to the operation.
So this week, I challenge y'all to wake up each day and ask God what He wants you to do today. I promise you, you'll be amazed at what you can do.

I love you all.
Sister Szilagyi

BBQ and Ties

"District P-day in Harlem. Volleyball, BBQ, petting adorable horses..."

"​On missions, you learn important skills: like learning how to tie a tie. I've been taught so many times, but you never remember a skill you don't practice!"

Drinking the Air

Hello beautiful people!

I am sitting at a computer in the library in Georgia, while rain is pouring down all around me. Rain that is warm like a shower. Rain that soaks you to the bone in approximately 2 seconds. Rain that is much appreciated when you go outside and it feels like you are drinking the air.

Also, after district meeting this week, all of us missionaries went to Huddle House to eat lunch. Our waitress had a GRITS tattooed on her left forearm. Welcome to the South. I love it.

This week was a great one. We had 3 people come to church with us yesterday, which was pretty wonderful (five if you count little S who is almost 5, and A who is one month old). B and her daughter S came, and T and C, and their brand spankin' new adorable baby girl. Sidenote: never have I ever seen a young dad love his baby more than C loves A. It is the sweetest thing on planet earth.

Saturday night, we had stopped by to see T and C and invited them to come to church the next day with a question in mind. We told them that we promised that if they came with a question, that question would be answered. After Sacrament Meeting on Sunday, we went up to say hello to them (they were sitting in the back with A) and Sister Arrieta asked C about his question. He told her that his question had been answered in less than five minutes :)

That is what happens when something is true. You can have the utmost confidence in it because it is true. I know that Heavenly Father loves every single one of His children. And I know that this is His church. And because I know those things, I know that He will answer C's question when he comes to church. Just like He will answer all of our questions when we ask sincerely and have an open heart and mind.

I am so grateful to be a missionary. I love it with every fiber of my being.

Sister Szilagyi

P.S. Also, I have a few people that I call "best friend" and one of them is now engaged. So I wanted to wish my best friend, Alivia Burnham, congratulations. Kyle is one lucky guy :)

Chickens and the Cutest Things

"Some of the Bryan children. Tell me this isn't the cutest thing you've ever seen."

"Speaking of the cutest things...​"

"Please look at the chicken Sister Arrieta is holding. If looks (or chickens) could kill..."

Baptisms, Boots, and Bridles

"Elder Christensen, A, and Elder Nelson"

"​Happy happy joy joy"

"I don't even know..."

"This is right next to where we live. Why shop anywhere else?"

A Bit of a Roller Coaster

Where to begin? This week was a bit of a roller coaster. Awesome moments. Moments where you want to throw up. Grateful moments. Moments where you just want to curl in a ball and cry. Elated moments. You get the idea. And that pretty much sums up missionary work. And I could probably end there.... but I won't.

News #1: Jackie's not getting baptized this week. She's having a rough time with some things, and has a few things to work on. But she stills loves us and we love her and it's only a matter of time :)

News #2: Elder Kopischke from the First Quorum of the Seventy came for his mission tour this week, and it was pretty wonderful. We were able to meet with half the mission on Thursday, where he basically opened up the meeting for questions and enlightened us all. And then on Friday, Sister Arrieta and I had the pleasure of attending a special Missionary Leadership Council as the Augusta Sister Training Leaders, where we were able to discuss what we had learned, how to apply those concepts in our areas, and ask him more questions. He's pretty wonderful and told me, in his charming German accent, that I reminded him of one of his favorite, more opinionated, sister missionaries that he worked with when he was a mission president. Which I'm taking as a compliment haha.

News #3: Andrew was baptized!!!! Now I know that he's not "technically" my investigator, but Sister Walker and I found him, and he asked me to speak at his baptism, so I'm adopting him okay? He's just so great. It was a beautiful baptism, and the spirit was extremely strong. The bishop asked several people to bare their testimonies after the baptism, including Andrew's aunt and cousin (who are the only other members in his family and who had flown here from California.) It was very special. I am continuously amazed at how perfectly Heavenly Father coordinates our lives as we act as instruments in His hands. Many tears were shed.

News #4: I held a chicken this week. Yes I did. Pictures to follow.

I love my mission. It may be amazingly difficult, but it is so very worth it. And it is amazingly joyful. This week I'm missing home just a tad. I wanted to give a shout out to all of my friends that are getting married/having children/living lives :) A special congrats to Aelish Wright: Y'all are adorable. And Ellen (Nielson) Kraus: My sources haven't sent me pictures yet but I bet y'all are adorable too :) And Spencer Calvert and Rachel (Chumley) Ivie: For both being rock stars and having twins.

I love you all. And hope all is well. Just remember what the pioneers sang: "All is well, all is well..." Do you really think all was well? Nope. It's all about attitude. So let's make a pact and focus our energies on the things we can control. And then let's all sing every day. Because singing makes everyone happy.

Big hugs,
Sister Szilagyi